Stories

Sarnai*

*not her real name/photo

There was nothing easy in the life of Sarnai. It can be said that her life was like hell having a careless mother and an aggressive stepfather. She passed hard life she suffers from catalepsy due to severe injury in her head resulting from an accident that happened when she was a little child, became a victim of sexual assault at her blossoming age being raped by her acquainting brother and her alcoholic mother and stepfather always beat her and evicted her in harsh winter with naked feet insisting her to bring money and she stayed in protective custody but she was delivered to her home 2 or 3 months later. The situation was getting worse, her mother and stepfather were drinking vodka more and more selling everything they have to earn money for drinking, and finally, they had no apartment to live in. They were staying in a hotel and her mother started to prostitute herself to pay hotel payment. Soon her mother forced her daughter into prostitution, forcibly made her take carbamazepine, a medicine against catalepsy, abundantly, and sold her to others when she wasn’t able to protect herself. 

In February 2018, she has been involved in the program for 19 months, her mental situation and behavior got stabilized, and created her personal space. Today Sarnai is living in the shelter, which welcomes disabled citizens and guards them for all their life. 

A woman named Gerel, who had been lured to Malaysia by the 2 sisters’ false promise of a high-paying housekeeper job, having no money in her pocket and believing the empty words of sisters that all expenses will be covered by her employer, was sold for 1000 Malaysian Ringgit according to that time currency rate. She realized everything was going wrong when the locked iron door cracked behind her. Gerel was forced into prostitution in sauna and massage parlors and she was savagely punished and beaten when she tried to escape. She forcibly worked as a prostitute being injected with drugs when she was sick and therefore she hadn’t another way to hide her illness. She wanted to leave that place but she went into debt of 17700 Malaysian Ringgit and therefore she can leave after paying her debt back. As long as Gerel found out that she will be sold to someone soon, she cut her face with a brow razor entirely and was whispering herself “I must go home alive”. Although Gerel could get resolved her problem through the court complaining against two sisters in court, documents of the closed trial were disclosed and her case was printed in newspaper with her full name. Everybody including her surroundings, even her close friends, found out about this case and she was afraid of being seen. That’s not all for her because she is always subject to family violence and has to tolerate her husband’s bossy attitude, insults, and offensive words. She isn’t able to work with others and with the community psychologically. She doesn’t come out of her home during the day-time not to be seen by others and goes outs when it gets dark outside. Her husband doesn’t come home for months drinking vodka. She became a prostitute not to let her children starve; actually, it is because she has just given up and accepted and believed it’s her destiny. 

GEREL*

*not her real name & photo

Altandöl*

*not her real name/photo

In September 2021, on the way back home from UB to Nalaikh district, she had no money or cell phone to call someone for help. Hopeless, she was walking along the road and approached by a stranger in a car, rolling down his window and offered to take her home. That is when she was convinced and got into the car. On the way, another lady joined and started asking questions of the client. While driving, the strangers had taken advantage of the client’s lack of adult supervision, money, and vulnerability, promised her a steady source of income and a beauty salon, and offered a job, which seemed, at the time, the only exit from the abusive and alcoholic mother, uncle and his friends and all types of abuses. That is how she was lured into the exploitation.